HOW TO SWAP

1. Select your partner
2. Tell your story or listen to your partner’s story
3. Swap
4. Tell your story or listen to your partner’s story

Instructions for the storyteller during the swap:
Tell your partner a story from your life that has deep meaning to you. Choose a story that has emotional content and truly reveals the person that you are. This story should be one that you would put in a time capsule if the world were going to end tomorrow. Think of something that feels dangerous or exciting and you will know you are on the right track. Be as specific and detailed as you can when telling the story to your partner.

Instructions for the listener during the swap:
Listen attentively and openly to your partner’s story. Notice if you have preconceived notions as to who your partner is, or how the story might end, try to put these feelings aside and listen to your partner without any preconceptions.

At the end of the story you may take some time to ask questions, to flesh out details, or clarify any confusion you might have. Please feel free to take notes if this will help you.

Writing Instructions:
Now it is your turn to tell your partner’s story as though it were your own. The objective is to take ownership of your partner’s story and, relying upon what you have heard as well as your imagination, tell the story in your own voice. Don’t concern yourself with exact dates, times or names.